So the other day I saw that a "friend" on FB (and I use th "" because if its someone who is from high school and you haven't seen since perhaps graduation is it really a friend?) posted how she joined a gym because she needs more "me-time." I also have friends (real-life ones) who do little things now and then for themselves as a way to reinforce this mental state.
I don't do this. I can't imagine doing this. Don't get me wrong, when friends mention the great yoga class they took, or I turn green with envy over some one's mani/pedi I don't think these are things I should do for myself. I think I don't have time for that. I think I don't have the money for that. I think I would rather be with The Boy and Juanito.
Funny though, I am always pushing Juanito to go and do something with his friends. Get out, get away. Come back to us happy and revived. Why don't I think this way about myself. I know this can circle back to my mom and how she was and still is. I know that this is something I need to working towards rectifying. Not sure how though....
What do you for your me-time?